I would like to appologise to you for highjacking your thread to plead my own personal agenda. It was wrong of me to do it here on your dime. It will not happen again. I'm so sorry my little sister for all you are going through, it must be hell. I truely hope the best for you. Others
here have given you really good advice so I will not as only you know what is really going on in your home. I do know that this awful burdon we are cursed with can take it's toll on a marrage, it is very hard on him to. It is so hard for others and yes, especially men who are raised
in this society to always be strong and never show any weakness. I do think it was much easier for me to see the stupidity of it all as I was always the biggest toughest guy around. (I met my wife when she was a bar tender and I was a bouncer over 30 years ago.)
I didn't have to prove it to anyone. I am paying dearly for my big tough youth as I broke just about every bone you can. Liquid courage, fast motorcycles & cars and stupid macho feets of stupidity found me in the hospital for most of my 20's. Yes, I learned the hard way.
So please do whatever you can to save your marrage. He married you for better or for worse (CP!!!) and I'm sure he still loves you. Keep the faith my little sister!
55 years old, Surgury, Radical Prostatectomy 8/20/03, PSA 6.6, Gleason 3 + 3 = 6, Adenocarcinoma extent (moderate) Stage & Margin:T2NOMX, No Metastases, Organ Confined, bone scan: Neg. 3 1/2 years of depression after surgery prior to Hypogonadizm DX, Testosterone Theropy (Testim Gel)since 12/06 but switched to a higher dose of (Androgel) 6/08. I am's what I am's and that's all that I am's! (Popeye) 55 and still alive and so glad to still be here to see my two sons grow up to be fine young men. They are both serving in the US Navy, one on a ship in the Atlantic and the other on a ship in the Pacific!!! I am one proud PaPa!!!!!