I am with the rest of almost all of the posters when they tell you to keep your eyes open. My husband, who I never thought would cheat, did.....and with a 20 something . I had been battling my problem with RSD, and while I thought that my husband would never do something like that, he did.
I am pretty in tune with him, and he suddenly developed a desire to watch his weight, went on a diet( I'd been asking him to go on for several years- he lost almost 50 pounds), started working out, his grooming was even better than it was previously.....he cared suddenly about not wearing t shirts all of the time, but instead regular shirts.....he started going out with "friends" he made at work. His former girlfriend also "worked" there. He was not out with friends, he was out with her.
Anyway, just be careful and keep your eyes open. I knew the first night that he was with her, that he had done something that he knew was wrong. As I said, I know my husband and I know how he acts. He knew that I knew as well.
Take care of you.....
PLIF/TLIF Fusion w/Instrumentation L4-5 Spondololysthesis L4-5.Laminectomies L4-5, foraminal stenosis L3-4, L4-5, L5-S1, herniations L3-4, L4-5, L5-S1, central canal stenosis L3-4, L4-5 and L5-S1
POST OP CES 3/30-06
Neurogenic Bladder and Bowel, bilateral numbness legs and feet
Revision for failed Back surgery, pseudoarthrosis L4-5, hemilaminectomies L3-4, L4-5, L5-S1, bmp added to revision fusion, replaced two bent screws that were reversing out of vertebrae - August 2, 2007
On going back pain and neuropathic pain, failed back surgery, consult for scs, decided not to do that at this point.
Adhesive Arachnoiditis also......just what I didn't need..9/08- adding bilateral ulnar neuropathy with severe compression to the mix. They want me to see a surgeon for ulnar nerve surgery, but I'm not biting.
I've seen enough surgeons over the last few years.