Post Edited (QTKaren) : 2/20/2009 3:09:22 PM (GMT-7)
Hysterectomy at 25
4 laproscopic surgeries since 24
Cervical stenosis in C3 & C4
Meds - percocet 3x day : nexium : xanax :
Supplements : calcium : magenesium :potassium : milk thistle : fish oil : B complex : vit E
In the United States today, there is a pervasive tendency to treat children as adults, and adults as children. The options of children are thus steadily expanded, while those of adults are progressively constricted. The result is unruly children and childish adults. ~Thomas Szasz
Karen, First of all you said you guys met online? And how long have you been married? How old is your hubby?
The reason I ask is that it might be a midlife crisis...this girl is too young to be serious about a man that is lod enough to be her dad..unless he has $$$.. Which he doesn't, right?
I feel for you, just keep an eye out, maybe it's nothing....but maybe it's something..
We are all in the same boat...unfortunatley it seems like it's sinking...
Post Lamenectomy Syndrome
120 mg. Methadone daily
60 mg. Oxycodone daily
Lyrica as needed
I am with the rest of almost all of the posters when they tell you to keep your eyes open. My husband, who I never thought would cheat, did.....and with a 20 something . I had been battling my problem with RSD, and while I thought that my husband would never do something like that, he did.
I am pretty in tune with him, and he suddenly developed a desire to watch his weight, went on a diet( I'd been asking him to go on for several years- he lost almost 50 pounds), started working out, his grooming was even better than it was previously.....he cared suddenly about not wearing t shirts all of the time, but instead regular shirts.....he started going out with "friends" he made at work. His former girlfriend also "worked" there. He was not out with friends, he was out with her.
Anyway, just be careful and keep your eyes open. I knew the first night that he was with her, that he had done something that he knew was wrong. As I said, I know my husband and I know how he acts. He knew that I knew as well.
Take care of you.....