Thank you so much for the responses. I will start by talking to the Bishop (I'm mormon) and get things cleared up. See, this woman is a very aweful person, she abused my friend, her daughter, physically and mentally when she was little. She use to throw boiling water on her, beat her til she was unconscious, and turned a blind eye when her dad use to sexually abuse her. And she does accuse all her careworkers of stealing her drugs and money from her, so this is nothing unusual, but to go and say it in front of people I know really hurt me. And the fact that she abused my best friend is the main reason why I cant go to her house, it makes me sick. And even though she doesnt physically abuse her anymore, she still does mentally very bad. Like lately she bounce $1500 in her bank account and blamed it on my friend, (she said she spent it on chocolate lol), when she spent it heself at costco buying things, and then has no memory of doing so, so she blames it on everyone else. she even told the people at church, that my friend wanders the street in her bra for hours, picking up men....which isnt true at all, my friend doesnt even go anywhere unless I take her, and is always dressed, and never even talks to men (actually she hasnt even had a bf since she divorced her husband when she was 24 years old and she's 61 now). about
a half a year ago my friend did get a call from someone else in the church saying that they think I'm a bad influence on her, and my friend got mad, she told them that before she met me she was in a severe depression, never went anywhere, and I have done nothing but helped her cause I take her to pay her bills, grocery shopping, take her to doctor's appointments, I even payed for her prescript
ions meds when she couldnt afford it and was geting sick from not having her blood pressure meds.
But anyways, I will make a phone call to a few people in the church. I'm not too crazy about
the bishop (he isnt the easiest person to talk to) but there is a guy there that I can talk to who I know would clear this up. They think I've left the church cause I dont care, but I just dont attend cause I'm in too much pain to sit on those uncomfortable chairs with my son who has ADHD and fights like crazy with my daughter, so that causes me way too much stress which causes me more pain. But I still beleive in the church very much, the same goes for my friend. And if your wondering why my friend doesnt set things right since it's her mom starting these rumors, it's because they think she's crazy cause of the things her mom says. Her mom belongs in a nursing home, but she wont go, and my friend refuses to take power of attorney for her cause it would make her physically sick, she cant handle that kind of stress, and the doctor says she right on the border line for going to a convelesent home. right now she lives in the serior citizen apartments (its a place for people who dont need help) and she will physically fight with her neighbors, they complain about
her all the time and are scared of her, so I dont know why they wont do anything. Actually yesterday my friend asked me why she thinks her mom is still alive (she has recovered from a triple bypass, cancer, a severe staph infection, and now has to be on dialysis) and doesnt understand why she's still kicking, and I told her that I really beleive that the devil is keeping her alive, she really is a very evil person, I could write a book on all the aweful things she's done to my friend. And why my friend still helps her is beyond me, she never abused her brother or sister, but yet they havnet talked to her in like 40 years. But thank you so much fir the responses and the support, I really need it right now, last night after writing the post I got really nauseous from the stress, I need to stop thinking about
this, the people who know me knows I would never harm anyone. Thanks for being my friends, you guys are the only ones that understands the stress of being in chronic pain and all the fun side effects that goes with it.
I have Migraines, Pancreatic Divisum, Severe lower back pain (possibly turned to arthiritis from lack of treatment), Fibromyalgia, Asthma, Depression w/Anxiety/panic, had glallbladder stones at 14yrs old, gallbladder removed at 15yrs old, 2 severe car accidents in '05
Meds: Suboxone 8mg 3xday for pain, Cymbalta 60mg @ night for depression & Fibro,
Lyrica @ night for Migraines and Fibro, Treximet as needed for Migraines,
Ventolin Albuterol Inhaler as needed for Asthma Attacks.
Chocolate as needed daily
Been on Diability since I was 22 for Migraines and chronic Pancreatitas but going to college Spring '09 to be a nurse
"Some days I just wish I was a missing person!"
"I'm not spoiled, I deserve all my stuff" -Happybunny