Pete, good buddy.
Have you tried to contact your boys today? Are they available to phone, or out to sea, or...?
I appreciate your checking in on my last thread, and your words of wisdom.
Mine on this one, back at ya?
Well, I don't know your current wife, or the type of person. Does she want you to chase after her? That was part of the problem with my first wife. And silly me, I took her at her word when she said she wanted to be with that other guy I caught her in bed with.
Well, she twisted my head till it near unscrewed completely, me trying to understand her and she trying to make sure I didn't. Even her 2 kids came to me after the divorce and told me that they appreciated what I had tried to do for them as a family. I stayed with it for almost 2 years, and gave up finally.
And now the second wife. After 6 years, my opinion of her hasn't change one iota. She is EXACTLY the person she represented herself to be almost 8 years ago when we met over the Internet. No gall, no misrepresentation, judging but not judgmental, caring and sharing. Everything I could hope for and so much more. Through thick and thin of Diabetes, foot surgery, unable to find/hold a job, every kind of medical screwup you can think of, followed by surgeries (nothing to the degree of your ailments and particularly nothing like your neck surgery) and finally to complete inability to work or earn a dime. I'm a bit depressed myself, good buddy. At least maybe enough to understand where you are at, head wise.
Have you ever used chat? or want to? There is a version here that isn't great but is better than many.
Wanna meet there and text more directly? I believe up to 20 can be on at once. Let's meet at 10:10 tonight on the Chronic Pain Chat. Unless you would prefer not then just please let me know here.
What you say, Pete?
Who else wants to join us on this new adventure? It is free, and easy to use, easy to sign up. Once you sign up, you select the forum you want to connect to (Chronic Pain) and away we go. You get to see whoever is connected, and you can participate or just watch. Bit difference is that it is immediate messages back and forth between who is participating.
LET'S GO! 10:10PM TONIGHT!
Wife: Liz, the choice of a lifetime
Dogs: Koshka Prayer
& Chomp Prayer