thank you everyone for the advise. I decided to take a step back and keep a close eye and ear on my neighbor to see what he would do. I guess he found his cat sleeping somewhere inside his house, so I think he's embarrassed now as earlier he was all outside ranting and yelling, and now he's not saying a peep, but he's outside drinking, again, like he does every night. Actually it's against my apartment's rules to be drinking alcohol outside, so I think I may make a complaint about
that when I complain about
him threatening my kids. I refuse to live next door to this wacko anymore. I never know what's gonna set him off. I know he's a vet and has some mental issues, he's admitted that to me several times before. My son gets picked on ALOT by older kids (my son is 9 years old btw) so he picks on younger kids alot, but I have him in boyscouts and other activities so he's around boys his age that dont pick on him. But that seems to be the only problem i have with him. His 3rd grade teacher was convinced that he has ADHD but I heard from the school's nurse that this teacher likes to push adhd meds on kids all the time (the school's nurse has been a family friend forever), so I took him off of those meds and he seems to me to just be a normal boy, he gets good grades, he even got a medaillion for reading achievement a few weeks ago. I have gone to a couple parenting classes to just learn a few things, it's sometimes hard being a single mom, their dad is very mentally ill and I cant let him be in my kid's lives right now, he's too unstable. My house is not perfect but it is picked up, we have food all the time, my laundry builds up but I always make sure my kids have clean clothes at all times. I'm not sure what CPS could possibly find. My daughter and I saw my son not go anywhere, we where sitting in the living room all morning, when this crazy guy came knocking. Now unless my son can do some hudini moves, he didnt go anywhere outside, and it's not like my son to just randomally
open someone's door and take a cat, he just doesnt do those things. My son is a very sensitive and caring boy, he loves to help me around the house and play video games with me, he isnt a normal trouble maker, not more then the average 9 year old boy. I just think my neighbor is now mad that he was wrong about
my son and is embarrassed as he isnt saying a single word now to anyone, I just know that I am complaining big time about
this guy, and I will not live next to a crazy man that will probably hurt my kids next time something like this happns. Actually this isnt the first time this has happened, last summer he thought my kids took the cat too and he found it sleeping a small little space in his closet. GRRR, he needs to be a convelsent home or somewhere far away from me and my kids. I know the people next to my friend is moving out, I'm gonna go beg for the manager to let me move into there, I'm willing to repay deposits, this is just plaine crazy!!! My best friend is a 61 year old lady so I have nothing against older people, just when they do crazy things that can hurt themselves or others, and he is one of them. Actually he likes to look at very nasty things on his computer with his window wide
open, I have to make sure my kids never go near his windows, I mean come on, I dont care what he does with his time, but he can atleast shut his windows, grrrrr, sorry, I 'm just so angry....
ps, I'm very excited that my guinea pig about
to give birth, I have been pampering her all day, I cant wait!!
Chronic Pain Moderator
Dx-Gallstones at age 14 that caused Fibromyalgia in 1998. Chronic Pancreatitis at age 15 from Pancreatic Divisum. Fell down cement basement stairs on my bottom in 2001. Got severe migraines after the epidural from my 2nd childbirth in 2002. Was rear-ended by a lady doing 55mph in 2004 then 2 months later rolled my car down a hill and did even more damage to my back. Depression caused by having chronic pain. Asthma from allergies.
meds- Suboxone for pain, Cymbalta for pain and depression, Lyrica for pain and migraines, Imitrex for migraines, Ibprofen for migraines, Ventolin Albuterol inhaler for asthma. Phenergan for nausea, Seroquel for sleep.
"I know God will not give me anything I can't handle. I just wish that He didn't trust me so much." -Mother Teresa