PaLady is in Pennsylvania, I don't know which part, but I'm 30 minutes from the PA border (Matamoras). I'm in Upstate NY, if you sneeze as you go through it you'll miss it. We have only 1 traffic light in the whole town. But, I only live about 15 minutes from Middletown, NY which has all the stores & restaurants, etc., and a big mall.
If you ever make it out this way, we'll have to make it a threesome!