Thanks so much! I have all my books packed up and are not easily accessable right now! So I can't look this med up and find out all the stuff about it! The med was not given for the pain, although if it helps it that would be great! I have asked for it because...well...this whole ordeal is kind of taking its toll on me, you know the last few years I have said I really don't know my wife anymore, but lately I am seeing a side of her I did not know existed! You know I am just kind of afraid she ( wife, ex to be or whatever) is just going to kind of stick me with everything. We have a big yard and I can mow using the rider mower and just mowing for short periods of time, and she would do all the hand mowing and weed eating and trim stuff. Now she moved into town, she has decided that she is no longer going to do any of that any more. But I can't do it and it is hard to find anyone that will do yard work, and the ones that will do it want a small fortune for their labor! Also She doesn't think she should have to pay on anything to do with the house, Lake association dues, mortage, property tax,, and all that. It is not cheap living out here, and until we sell the house, somebody has to be here, and do the up keep of it!!. I did not move out because I could not aford to pay for the up keep of two different places. But she just up and did it, and now she is gone,( which is fine with me as long as she helps keep the place up and pays her share) but that is the big hitch in it all! She doesn't want to pay! I do not want to wreck my good name or anything because of her! And unfortunately everything we ever had was all joint in both our names! It is like I told my Lawyer I have tried to bend over backwards to be fair and even assist her in this, and all I get is messed over! It scares me, and the thing is when the house is sold she gets half of everything! But if this house doesn't sell soon and I am stuck with everything, well???????? It is not a good situation! With my increased pain with my neck and the problems with the fusion.......I think I have said to much! I was hoping this divorce would be all over with by now, but she has decided to be greedy and try and make me the bad guy! So far I have refused, to play that way, it is not in my nature, I am not the bad guy in this! Even though I am the one who filed, this divorce was not my fault!
PALady I am sorry for venting on your thread! I really do hate taking any more meds, and I am not excited about taking this one, but even though I have the counselor, and that helps me allot, but I know I am experiencing some of the symptoms of depression, and it would help to have something to get me through this period! So I have mixed feeling about taking this. The Doc did say if this didn't work I could try something else! They gave me the Celexa yesterday 30 days worth, my co-pay was three dollars. But I haven't taken it yet!
Thanks for all the information and help PALady! I really do appreciate it!
Moderator Chronic Pain
I'm Retired USAF, went back to school and became an RN, and now am on full disalbility!--Degenerative Disc (affecting mostly the thorasic disc but all levels involved), C6/7 laminectomy/diskectomy& fusion, Osteoarthritis, Ulcerative colitis, Chronic Pain, Fibromyalgia, Complex Sleep Apnea, and host of other things to spice up my life!(NOT!) Medications: Oxycontin, Percocet, Baclofen, Sulfasalazine, Metoprolol, Folic Acid, Supplemental O2 at 3lpm with VPAP Adapt SV