Dear 91, I hate to hear stories like this, and it saddens me that people can be so cruel. I went through a terrible Divorce, and lost almost all of my family. I have two grand children who I don't get to see at all to this day. It's hard to hold your chin up at a time like that, and I'm fully aware of a gang mentallity which is going on there. All you can do is the right thing and avoid the conflict as best you can. I hope you have family members or neighbors in your area to help comfort you, and I have to add, not to side with you. Its best not to put yourself in the line of fire. I can only think that the stress you are going through has not helped your pain levels. I can only ask if you have been back to your PCD
or your Surgeon for this, as it seems like the logical place to start. I'm sure there will be other members more qualified to guide you into a better direction. Take care, and I sincerly hope you get to feeling better, and I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your husband.
Post Edited (Screaming Eagle) : 11/18/2009 3:32:09 PM (GMT-7)