When my older brother was a teenager he and a friend got arrested for stealing gas from another car. My mother packed up all us younger kids and took us to the jail to see my brother. I'm sure it was embarrasing for him that his younger siblings saw him there and it scared the crap out of me to see him there. Anyway, he never got into trouble again and I knew I never wanted to be in jail either.
DDD, osteoarthritis, fusion surgeries C-5/7 & L-4/5 both in 2006, torn meniscus left knee 2000 & 2002, buldging disc L-2/3