My mother and her high-school sweetheart married 8 years ago. My father passed away nine years ago and she waited the "respectable" year after his passing. She had not seen this man in many, many years and he offered her a LIFE. He knew she was way beyond BROKE and still loved my father very much. He also realized she had changed with the years, as had he. One of my sisters likes him, the other doesn't. I really do very much and he spends a great deal of time with me. My mother and he are very happy together and have pooled resources and intellect. They are now world traveling mulit-millionaires and she still runs an old small run-down family business. The LOVE each other, very much! They have both had heart problems with surgery, joint problems, emotional ups and downs, children issues (the both have children/grandchildren/even one great-grandchild) and found that they need each other and love each other "warts and all'.
What I'm trying to say is that you have something wonderful to offer this person or they would not be with you. With your
openness, I'm sure they are aware of you medical problems and accept that....or they wouldn't be in your bed and making committments. If you love this person, please don't doubt what you have to offer or if you are going to burden them. You will not. Love is a very strong bond that heals us all in some way. If you have that (and of course only you can know), give it your all.
All my best on this bright Easter Morning!
DDD, CHRONIC PAIN SYNDROME, TLIF L5-S1 2009 (failed), FIBRO, MINEYER'S (SP?), VERTIGO, MIGRAINES, GERD, SLEEP DISORDER, NISSEN FUNDOPLICATION (failed), DEPRESSION, EXTREME ANXIETY DISORDER, OCPD, PTSD, CHRONIC MUSCLE SPASMS, HUMAN GROWTH HORMONE DEFICIENCY, VITAMIN D DEFICIENCY, CARPLE TUNNEL SYNDROME, EXTREME IDIOPATHIC HYPOGLYCEMIA FROM AGE 12