What do you prefer...spontaneity or stability? These two choices are on opposite ends of the spectrum for most people. Do you enjoy doing things when you first think of them? Or are you more comfortable looking into something before you make a move?
I'm totally the stable one...not that I'm "stable"...lol but I need stability in my life. Surprises are awful for me. It shocks my system and that only causes me more problems. I've had too many of those in my life to enjoy the uncertainty of spontaneity. My family knows this and some feel I'm a bore because of it but oh well...they're not me!
So are you someone who prefers a most stable style or do you like the fun and thrill of doing things 'right now'?
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