You are both so right. I do hope nothing I said "hurts" her in any way. I know I never signed anything, but I don't know if she did. She was not in the room with me during the "interveiw".
I hope you guys get one more like mine. When they did my independant evaluation, my friend was there and they asked her to answer questions about
my mental/physical health. She was able to say whatever she felt necessary and I do trust that she did the best she could. She was treated kindly (as was I) and my evaluation was accurate.
I'm really scared for her that she got one of those awful ones with no morals at all.
PALady, I used the word obsessed so many times in my career capacity that this seemed idiotic to me. Like you stated, I was not acting in a professional capacity, but as a friend of a person who was willing for me to give information at her request.
I sincerely hope you get a Dr like the one they gave me and not like the one they gave my friend!!! I'm afraid (like you) that it's the luck of the draw anyway and getting harder and harder to get the right hand.