You are so right. It is so difficult to say the right thing, without making her feel worse. I'm just trying to listen and let her vent if she needs to. She seems to want to talk sometimes and completely avoid it others. I'm sure that is part of the process.Thank you for your support, and kind wishes.
I am so happy to hear that you are a survivor. It must have been such a difficult thing to go through. My mom's dad has had colon cancer 3 x's..well they didn't get enough of it and he has had to have his colon removed 3 x's. All 5 of his brothers and his father passed away from colon cancer so with his success rate I know they have came a long way. Thank you for your words of encouragemant.
We are close. It has taken a long time but I trully think of her as my best friend. She is so supportive of us and is always their to listen to our gripes and such. I think that makes it all the more difficult..the what if's of it being bad. We can't change was is ,at this point, so I just have to be a rock for her,thank you for your kind words.
Here again to be my rock. What with all that you are going through. I thank you for that. I am trying to keep myself from going to that thought. The oh my God it is going to be the worse or has spread. I catch myself in that moment here and there but have had to pull myself back. If I could get some sleep I might be better.lol Thank you for your support.
I am sorry about your mom. There is really no-one in this world that can replace that bond if you have it. I can't imagine and wish so much you didn't have to know what it was like to not have your's. Thank you for the prayers. I always pass them along to her and it means so much.
I am so happy to hear about your aunt. Some good news, like that, lifts my spirits not only for me but for those of you who have supported me through everything. My mom keeps saying no wigs please I'm going ala natural..haha. I have to laugh when she says that. Thinking of all the years she died and primped on that hair. I think saying it though, helps her prepare just in case. thank you for always being there for me..I hope you are feeling better.
I spoke to my mom tonight. Although she says she was in a bad point last night and semi-heavy medicated(by my standards..but who am I) herself because of pain, and I believe stress as well. I passed along all of your prayers and well wishes. She cried happy tears and said she felt so blessed that people who don't even know her are so supportive. Thank you all again. Will post more updates later. Heather
Big Hugs, Mama6
DX. with Fibromyalgia, Narcolepsy, Poss. RA or Psoratic Arthritis, Herniated disc 3x in last 7 months
Meds: Nuvigl, Cymbalta, Tramadol
Mother to 5 wonderfull kids. Oldest is 18 and just left the nest for animation school. Youngest just started 2nd grade. So I am crazy, and feeling my age plus some.