Jim, this is a great post! I knew my fiance wants to fix it, and I love that about him. He does so much, but at times I feel that he should have better, not the other way around. I know the problem is how I look at things, not with him. He wants to fix it, which would be great, but it cant be.
I have a question though. Can men learn little cues in body language or a tone of voice that would tell them what is going on? Just a question, nothing more. Only because my fiance acts like I am in need of help when I finally stop talking. I admit it is a rare occurrence, but it does happen!
Thank you for the insights, it helps me see things from his point of view.
The worst sin towards our fellow creatures is not to hate them, but to be indifferent to them. That's the essence of inhumanity. George Bernard Shaw
Pelvic adhesive disease, Irritable bowel syndrome, SI joint pain, 7 pelvic surgeries for pain, ovarian cysts, adhesions, and a kidney stone! Wait, future medial transcriptionist I must say ureteral calculus!