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NiNi53
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   Posted 4/28/2011 12:11 PM (GMT -6)   
cry  so sorry i have been off line for a little while, my best friends husband passed away sunday night sometime, pat was able to be there as the hospital he was in had a hospice right there.  sorry seems so empty when talking with a person i have know 30 years, and her husband and her were married for 40+ years. it seemed so quick, it also made me jolt myselt into making sure i am taking as good care as i can. which means when i see my doctor on wed. the 4th i am going to have him/her adjust my meds as i have been on the same regimen for 3-4 years and i am finding it more and more difficult to make it month to month and feeling as good as i can. anyway i am going to stay off line until his funeral, because i just having such a hard time with this, i can only imagine what pat is going through, but i am and will be there for her no matter what, i love her and she is a great friend. hoping everyone is having low pain days, will be back soon. after my doc appoint on wed at least pain wise i should feel better.
degenerative disc disease, fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis, neuropathy, lumbar laminectomy july 1998 no help, rechargeable neurostimulator unit low right back w/lead wires to left side and right leg unit not working just sitting there.i am 57 years young in may will turn 58. i have 2 grown daughters, 25 and 29. i have 2 grandchildren, 9 year old grandaughter and 5 yr. old grandson

momtofourangels
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   Posted 4/28/2011 1:52 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi NiNi. i'm so sorry for your friends loss. My condolences to her and the family. It's good to hear that you're stepping back and thinking about yourself too. You take good care. We'll see you when you get back.

love and hugs
Loretta
Dx: osteoarthritis, bursitis in left hip, Osteoarthrits in right hip, compression fracture in thoracic spine due to falling on frozen ground March 2001 , ddd, spinal stenosis, bone spurs, osteoarthritis in spine, osteoarthritis in both knees
Meds: Fentanyl patch, oxycodone, otc: BenGay, Tylenol Arthritis on occasion

NiNi53
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Date Joined Mar 2011
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   Posted 4/28/2011 2:20 PM (GMT -6)   
thank you both so much, i cant tell you how much better i feel knowing there are so many people who i feel close to in such a short time. that right there makes me feel better, i will continue to prod my friend to get on well any forum she can take a look at. i know she is not ready now when the time is right i will be there. very grateful hugs and hoping all are having low pain. i really cant express how good everyone makes me feel, i will do my best to do the same.
degenerative disc disease, fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis, neuropathy, lumbar laminectomy july 1998 no help, rechargeable neurostimulator unit low right back w/lead wires to left side and right leg unit not working just sitting there.i am 57 years young in may will turn 58. i have 2 grown daughters, 25 and 29. i have 2 grandchildren, 9 year old grandaughter and 5 yr. old grandson

left forum.
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Date Joined Jul 2010
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   Posted 4/29/2011 3:04 AM (GMT -6)   
Thinking of you and your friend during this time and I hope you can all get through this together. Be there for your friend but also remember to think about how you are feeling! Stay strong, my prayers are with you and your friends family. With time things will heal but make sure your friend knows that during this most sensitive time, she shouldn't be thinking she HAS to do anything, she needs to just go with what shes feeling.

Best wishes and know we are all here for you!

I hope the funeral goes well and is a nice service

xx
15 years old,
Chronic stomach pain with no diagnosis yet and lots of other things.

When the going gets tough, the tough get going.

Chartreux
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   Posted 4/29/2011 5:27 AM (GMT -6)   
Many Sympathies to your friend and you hang in there as well....
Stay strong...Many Prayers and well wishes...
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