My very best friend of 30 years lost her husband of 40 years very quickly of leukemia, that had apparently gone undiagnosed for at least a year. Sorry is just never enough to say, I know it is going to take some time and I sure it will take alot of time actually. Letting him go was the most unselfish thing she could have done, as he would not have wanted to just exist so she could just be with him and he was in so much pain.
I can only give her all the love and understanding I possibly can, they had 2 children together, they are adults now of course, his daughter was trying to have and grandchild for him before he left, (she was planning on starting a family anyway), but time got away from her very quickly. He son is the one I am worried about even more that my friend. He seems completely lost, and calls his mother about 20 times a day whichg is getting in the way of her own way of coping.
I can only hope that time will eventually begin to heal all of them. If anyone has any ideas on grief counceling, let me know I would so much appreciate it, I myself am grieving but I am dealing, I would like to be able to help her and the children in some way.
Thanks everyone, hoping all are having very low pain days and bless all of you.
degenerative disc disease, fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis, neuropathy, lumbar laminectomy july 1998 no help, rechargeable neurostimulator unit low right back w/lead wires to left side and right leg unit not working just sitting there.i am 57 years young in may will turn 58. i have 2 grown daughters, 25 and 29. i have 2 grandchildren, 9 year old grandaughter and 5 yr. old grandson