Honey, I'm so sorry to hear of your dad's bladder cancer. Hopefully he will respond well to treatment and his health can be restored completely.
Meanwhile, I hope and pray that your pain is alleviated. Try, and I know it's hard, to be as peaceful as possible in your body and mind to allow your body to heal. I will be praying for you, your family and your father for sure.
You know that you and I go back some way now and that you are my favorite. Don't forget you have someone here who cares so much about you. You have my prayers and I am sending you all the good energy that I can. Great thoughts for low pain. God bless.
let me know what else I can do for you. Char.