Donna, my heart aches for you. I am so sorry for the losses you have just experienced in your family. The best thing you can do for your daughter is just let her cry, talk, scream...or whatever she feels the need to do right now. And everyone is different as to how long that will take. Maybe it hurts for her to talk about Grandma right now, too...and that's ok.
Isaiah 43:2 When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.
DDD, 3 bulging lumbar discs, bone spurs, facet joint arthrosis/sclerosis, osteoarthritis, possible fibromyalgia (my dr's are telling me that I "most likely" have fibro but won't actually diagnose it...)