Hi Donna, its me again, Kathy, please take the advice from all of the people who have responded to your post. No one should live the way you do. I dont know where you live, is there a shelter you can go to. All of the shelters in my tri-state area take in you, your children.
Again, the one place I know of is called House of Ruth. I believe this is not just in the state I live in. But no matter, find a shelter you and your children can go to, get out, its not going to get better and I think you know that. I was so encouraged to see a mans (a real man) take on your situation. This is exactly what is needed, not all of them are like your husband, in fact more men are real men than are not.
Honey, you read the papers, you know what goes on with domestic violence, these people never change. For whatever reason, (and it does not matter what he says his reason is) this man is dangerous, you have to get you and your children out of this volitile situation. This is so unhealthy for you in many ways.
Know that you are not alone, please get in touch with a shelter, a church, The Salvation Army, look in your phone book, there are phone numbers you can call to see how to get out, please for your and your childrens sake, get out and dont look back, he is not going to change.
Ok, I am done ranting, I am sorry if this sounds harsh, but we are all worried about you, you can see that in the peoples response.
Good luck, my prayers are with you and your children, take care and Get Out,
degenerative disc disease, fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis, neuropathy, lumbar laminectomy july 1998 no help, rechargeable neurostimulator unit low right back w/lead wires to left side and right leg unit not working just sitting there.i am 57 years young in may will turn 58. i have 2 grown daughters, 25 and 29. i have 2 grandchildren, 9 year old grandaughter and 5 yr. old grandson