Sorry that your having such a rough time of it right now! Hopefully your up coming surgery will really be of help to you. But the waiting is alway the hard part, I am sure that once you have the surgery then every thing will start looking better! Oh sure it might be difficult at first, it often is, especially if you over due it to soon! So be careful and do exactly what your doctor says and do not be in to much of a hurry, Give your body and your surgery plenty of time to heal!
Jane I know it might be really difficult right now, but try and do your best to get up and around as much as you can. Even if you have to use the dreaded wheel chair that you don't want to use. The more active you do now, the easier it will be on you, when you have the surgery and right afterwards. Your muscles and all your organs and just every thing in your body needs the activity. It is great that you have such and understanding and devoted husband to help you. But try your best to do as much as you can, to keep active.
I do wish you well and hope you get to feeling better soon. Remember all your friends here at Healing Well are here to listen to and support you!
Post Edited (White Beard) : 6/13/2012 9:08:56 AM (GMT-6)