I'm so sorry they treated you that way. I would write a letter so they understand that this was not only rude, but dangerous. As medical professionals they should understand that this was not an optional request.
I hope you are able to ease your flare soon. I'm sure your husband appreciates you being there for him during the procedure and during the aftermath.
Chronic Pain Warrior since 2007
Diagnosed in 2007 - Chronic Pelvic Pain and Stage 3 Endometriosis
PM Patient since 2009
My daily Goal - to make at least one person smile a day. Smiles are contagious and create a ripple effect... that one smile may lead to a miracle! :0)
<~ The No Problems Dance