Posted 12/23/2014 8:43 PM (GMT -6)
I don't know what kind of doctors you should see or have any ideas about what your problem might be but wow, that is so much to deal with!
Depression occurs with a lot of other disorders, so if you feel dismissed when a doctor talks about it, you should press him or her to help you address other issues as a means of fixing your depression. I don't know, maybe. I've had that happen to me so many times, where doctors say it's "JUST" depression. That's a crock, anyway, because depression is a life-threatening illness.
I hope you find some answers somewhere. I'm just about the same age as you with three small kids, too, and I know what a hard road it is (as do many other members here!)
Welcome and I hope you'll stick around HW to find a lot of support and encouragement.