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Darla
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Posted 10/16/2018 4:02 AM (GMT -7)
Hi Everybody, I am 'checking in' because I need a little support. I am released from my NS as my 4 level ACDF was successful and I just need to keep healing but all looked good on post-op x-ray. Yay! However, my elbow still really hurts and after having some testing and more dr's & appts it is a radial nerve prob and I need a surgery to correct it (Nov 8). I know this will not be a big surgery and having tried other options I know it needs to be done. Very unhappy about it but not my biggest problem.

I have a new rheum as I have said prev. She has done a lot of testing, gathered previous x-rays and records (even looking for my bone condition prior to having joints replaced!), repeated an echocardiogram, extensive blood and urine testing...everything I hoped would happen. I am waiting for the lab work to be done and x-rays read. Echo was good but I have very high blood pressure which so far has not responded to changes in bp meds. Working on that with the primary. I am starting some easy yoga!

The Rheum says I have UCTD or MCTD. Which one depends on the lab results and other tests but I have one of those based on the physical test and history, etc. I have Sjogren's syndrome, and Raynaud's syndrome.

I feel like I have 'come out'. I already knew I had these things but now I am able to tell people and start to deal with it. It is a lot to handle and I am just on this side of losing my sh&t. I have started to make some changes in how I do things, products I use, help I ask for or allow. Not easy not easy not easy. I have also decided I am applying for SSI disability at the end of the year. I have had this online teaching job for 20 yrs and I am sad this is how I go out.

I just wanted to check in and look for a little support from fellow warriors. I appreciate any support but also any tips or guidance or suggestion. Nothing critical please. Thanks!
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Posted 10/16/2018 10:56 AM (GMT -7)
Darla:
I have lived with MCTD for +/- 8 years. I think you will find that living with a connective tissue disorder will be one of adapting and adjusting over time, an ongoing evolution, as opposed to a specific enlightening event of clarity.

Everyone with a connective tissue disorder will have his/her own set of annoying symptoms. How I experience MCTD will be different from someone else, depending on the type of tissue most involved.

Truth be told, medical science has relatively little to offer to tame an immune system on self-attack. There is always concern in overly suppressing one’s immune system and the sequela. There is much that remains unknown as to the intricacies of the immune system. Approach treatment decisions with the utmost of
care and research/study, especially concerning newer biological.

I am a big advocate of self-care. Perhaps that is due to my background as a physical therapist and distance runner. Never replace self-care with a reliance on pharmaceuticals and medications.

To wit:
1. Read up on the principles of an anti-inflammation diet. There is sound reasoning in nutrition and food choices that calm inflammation. I shop at Whole Foods, only. I avoid processed foods, high fructose corn syrup, avoid excess sugars and sugar substitutes, and purchase organic. I keep to a vegetarian diet out of personal choice. That doesn’t mean that I do not partake in foods and tastes that I enjoy (I do). I love ice cream. But I eat ice cream in moderation. I am not someone who finds comfort in food, I am not a “foodie.” My intestinal history (ileostomy) and adhesions also affect the foods that I can consume, which does not impact most other individuals with widespread inflammation. Bottom Line: Begin to read up on food/diet following an anti-inflammation program. Dr. Weil is a well-known authored physician on the subject.

2. Keep moving
Yes, it hurts to move when connective tissue and bone articulations are inflammed. But gentle movement is the prescription needed. Synovial fluid that lubricates joint surfaces is exchanged and replenished through regular range of motion. Constriction and gradual shortening of connective tissue is best thwarted by slow, sustained stretching. Yoga. Pilates. Look into community resources . . . YMCA water/pool arthritis program or the Silver Sneakers senior programs. I consider yoga and stretching to be a regular part of my day, along with brushing my teeth. I walk religiously, despite avascular necrosis of my hips. Keep moving. Keep moving. I will keep moving until I simply cannot.

3. Purchase a new mattress and bedding
A memory foam mattress/Tempurpedic has been ideal for me. I also purchased an articulating frame that provides for the head/foot sections of the bed to raise/lower. The Comfort Number mattress series also has good ratings. You want a mattress that unweights sensitive joints and pressure points. Take time and lie on several mattresses as you shop a mattress retail store. I spent a lot of hours on my bed, as sitting is limited for me. A quality mattress has added to my comfort.

Keep to a light-weight down quilt or light-weight comforter at nighttime. Avoid heavy or bulky blankets and sheets that weigh heavily on your body.

4. Keep it simple with personal care products
I subscribe to personal care products (shampoo, soap, toothpaste, etc) that are organic with a minimum of chemical additives. I avoid all products with parabens and sodium laurel sulfate and avoid all plastic with BPA. Glycerin soaps are a pure choice without skin irritation. Major brands for soaps and lotions: Cephalin, Keihl’s, and Johnson & Johnson’s Basis brands are minimally processed with few additives. Your skin is the largest organ of the body. Treat your skin and nails with attentive care and avoid highly processed skin products (several skin product chemicals absorbed by the skin are known to be endocrine disrupting).

4. Dental/oral care
Dental and oral care of teeth and gums is essential. People with poor dental care and gingivitis are prone to heart valve disorders and generalized health deterioration. For anyone with connective tissue inflammation, extra attention to dental care is a must. I have dental hygienist cleanings 4 x a year (insurance pays for 2 visits per year, I private pay for two visits). Attent to any dental work (fillings, root exposure) in a timely manner. Do not delay dental work needs. Floss daily. Use a high quality toothpaste with fluoride (there are prescription toothpaste and dental rinses, ask your provider). Invest in a Braun Oral-B or ultrasonic electric toothbrush. Rinse with an anti-tartar rinse or fluoride rinses.

OK . . . That’s a full starting point of ideas to consider and integrate into your daily routine. I have been disappointed, overall, by medicine and medical care. I have had to reach deep within myself to find a personal compass. Each person’s pathway will be unique. Begin to explore avenues of self-care that bring value to you.
Karen
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Darla
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Posted 10/16/2018 11:32 AM (GMT -7)
Karen, I deeply thank you for the time and effort writing that. Rest assured not a single word is lost on me.
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Darla
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Posted 10/18/2018 7:27 AM (GMT -7)
Karen (and anybody else who would like to add their input!),
I am looking at new beds as per your suggestion. I had an adjustable years ago and just did not care for it so I am looking for a great traditional mattress etc. I don't like the new ones that sit so low on the floor! I would never get up from that. As a phys. therapist...do you suggest firm, medium, soft? It is such an expensive purchase I want to get it right. I bought a great one (supposedly) 5 yrs ago and it sags terribly. Advice?
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Posted 10/18/2018 9:30 AM (GMT -7)
Darla, over the years we have discussed the mattress situation. Buying a new set is an individual situation. The variance depends on what feels comfortable for you. We bought a set a few years ago & for the life of me, I cannot remember the brand. The top cannot be flipped over like a traditional mattress, it does not have what I think is called a pillowtop either. One thing I do know the mattress is very, very heavy. This mattress is firm & it does not give when you lay down on it. My daughter tried it out & said it was way too hard for her taste. I think over the years I have slept on every kind of mattress there is, lol. What I have learned is the medium-firm pillow top caused me too many sore spots.


The best thing to do is go to several mattress stores & try the mattresses out & see what feels the best. Don't lay on the bed a couple minutes, see how it works when turning over & changing your positions. Also, check with furniture stores too. The prices can vary from store to store. The platform type beds are too low for me, I am under 5 ft & I do not care for them either. Visit several places & take your time deciding.

Do not assume because a mattress set comes with a high price that it is the best either. This is why I say try a lot of different ones out. We paid a lot for this set no doubt. We use to have our mattresses custom made because of my husband's size. We had a company here that we used for years. This new set did not come from there. Be prepared to spend some money because a good decent one is not going to be real cheap.
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Darla
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Posted 10/18/2018 9:36 AM (GMT -7)
Thanks, Susie. I am prepared to spend for a good one and that is why I want to make sure. 5 yrs ago we made a big investment in a top notch set and it is very comfortable but it sags terribly. I think laying on it would not show me how it will wear, so that is why I am seeking advice from happy users. I think the names change every few yrs anyway! I can't understand the popular new ones...Come in a box and spring to life sitting a few inches off the ground. Great for College kids but I want comfort. Thanks!
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Posted 10/18/2018 10:51 AM (GMT -7)
Darla:
I would go to a reputable mattresses retailer that stocks several known name brands and that offers a 90 day trial/return. Name brands: Tempurpedic, Custom Number Series, Sealey, Posturpedic, Sternes and Foster.

I am loyal to Tempurpedic. It always fits my needs to a T. A quality memory foam mattress is rarely a disappointment.

Pillow top mattresses are another choice.

The Customer Number mattress allows for individual pressure relief via air pockets that are filled or released by a hand held remote control.

The internet provides for information and reviews of mattresses by type and brand. Most of all, take your time in lying in matresses at a reputable retailer and look for a 90 day trial period provision.

Getting an anti-microbial mattress protector cover is also a good idea for anyone with allergies as well as immune suppression.

Changing out pillows is also a good idea. Dander and microscopic mites come to occupy a good volume of a pillow that is 5 years of age and older.

Enjoy shopping,
Karen
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Darla
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Posted 10/18/2018 11:35 AM (GMT -7)
Thank you, Karen! Great advice. Thanks, ladies. I am trying to focus on something positive...an upgrade to comfort rather than another hit from the disease. I am waiting for results from the latest lab work and I am so on edge I decided to take some of Karen's pointers and start shopping. I appreciate you!
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Posted 10/18/2018 10:42 PM (GMT -7)
Hi Darla You know with all my cervical fusions and my lower back surgery and problems with my Thoracic spine, I found sleeping extremely difficult! For many years I slept in a recliner, then a new furniture store opened up near where I lived and with their grand opening sale I purchased an adjustable bed. Actually 2 of them! Two extra long individually adjustable single beds, that fit side by side in a king size sleigh bed frame. We had had really good pillow top mattresses with them. But since I can't lay flat and I often use my wireless remote during the night to tweak and adjust the bed, I found in just a few short years the mattresses got lumpy and also saggy and very uncomfortable! about 2 years ago I replaced the two mattresses with Tempurpedic ones, but the newer ones that don't retain your body heat and make you hot while sleeping! Anyway I have found them to be excellent mattresses and they work much much better on an adjustable bed and don't lose there shape or become lumpy when not in a perfectly flat position! But they are pretty expensive! But if you consider how much time you spend sleeping I feel it is a more than worth while investment!!!

Just maybe something to also consider checking into???

Good Luck to you!........White Beard
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Darla
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Posted 10/19/2018 8:47 AM (GMT -7)
Hi Whitebeard and thank you! I knew this group would have great advice on choosing such an expensive investment. It is great to hear from you and I really appreciate the advice. I will def consider these things. I hope you are doing well!
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Darla
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Posted 10/20/2018 11:26 AM (GMT -7)
Thanks again everybody. I ordered a bed!
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Posted 10/24/2018 4:27 PM (GMT -7)
Darla:
I know you have issues with cold fingers and toes.

A chill is in the air in the Pacific NW. i purchased a cozy pair of down booties at a local North Face Store today. They would not be too hot for Florida.

For my hands, I often wear thin glove liners -inside.

Liquid Band-Aide by NexCare (often called liquid skin) is great for treating splitting skin at the nails. A dab of Neosporin with a finger cotlet (a finger sock made out of elastic) is also a good remedy for irritating skin cracks. Wearing might gloves with a moisturizer is also an option.
Karen
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Darla
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Posted 10/25/2018 3:16 AM (GMT -7)
Hi Karen, thanks...I definitely do feel the chill. As soon as we dip below 73ish I feel like my blood is made of ice water and I can't get warm on my own. I do live in FL but it is N. FL and while still not a cold area it is not tropical. I lived in NY for most of my life and this is easier but as I get older and worse it hits me harder. I appreciate that advice. Thanks to online shopping everything can be obtained. Enjoy the booties! I am going to order them and glove liners. I have also found that washing with olive oil soap helps keep my hands hydrated as I am a very frequent washer. Thanks for thinking of me, Karen!
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Darla
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Posted 10/26/2018 9:39 AM (GMT -7)
Karen, I ordered down booties. I do need them but I was not able to find a wide width. I ordered a Men's pair which may or may not work out. Any specific ones you can recommend? Anybody run into this? Due to swelling my already wide feed are very wide a good amount of time. Normal length but wide. Thanks!
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Posted 10/26/2018 11:30 AM (GMT -7)
Men’s sizing may suffice. You will have to order by mail and try them on at home when they arrive. The down booties by North Face are boxy and roomy.

Another brand of down booties that I adore is Sierra Design. Sierra Design is also available on-line through the Sierra Design home page.

I wear down booties year-round. Cozy and soft.

Ugg brand fleecy wool slippers/slip-on clogs are a favorite in Portland and Seattle - where relief for wet soggy feet is a premium. Ugg’s are a comfortable option for feet pained by neuropathy or Raynaud’s. Ugg’s are relatively expensive but well worth the investment.

Seamless wool socks are another option. SmartWool brand makes a quality wool sock without irritating seams. I wear wool socks in my house and part ways with shoes at the doorway. SmartWool socks are part of my footwear staple.

Microwaveable buckwheat warming packs are a constant companion for me. They are usually available as circular neck wraps and smaller squares. The buckwheat fill enables the pack to conform to body contours. Heat in the microwave 2 minutes at 50% (avoid full power setting as the buckwheat will fry and burn, with a nasty odor).

My new little Maltese-poodle mix, Abby, has her own buckwheat warming pack. You see Abby visibly sigh with contentment as she makes a bedding nest with the warm pack. Our companion pets appreciate a little TLC, too.

Stay warm,
Karen
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Darla
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Posted 10/26/2018 12:24 PM (GMT -7)
Oh, thanks!! My shopping list!! And what a lucky pet! Thank you!
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Posted 10/31/2018 6:09 PM (GMT -7)
my tiny gem of wisdom is that the pain of the high blood pressure cuff is TOO much around my upper arm and now they have a cuff for the lower arm below the elbow. I am your born with dislocation of the hip and hammer toes KID.
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Darla
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Posted 11/1/2018 9:44 AM (GMT -7)
Joan, I agree with the cuff issue! It also really raises my bp when the squeeze effects my elbow nerve problems. Glad to know they have an option!
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Posted 7/17/2019 5:07 PM (GMT -7)
Hi Darla,
I know the post is old but from it, did you apply for SSI and if so, was it successful? I may do the same. Thanks for the info!
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Darla
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Posted 7/18/2019 3:12 AM (GMT -7)
Hi bebbles! I applied at the end of December and heard quickly that I was denied. I reapplied right away and I am still waiting. It has been over 5 months since I reapplied and it is being processed for a decision. Agonizing. If this step is denied and I think it usually is I will go for the appeal with a hearing. I think that step is often approved. Takes a long time but I do think ultimately I will get it. At least that is what I tell myself. Good luck to you and let me know what you decide to do!
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Posted 7/20/2019 2:58 AM (GMT -7)
Keep strong. HT.
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bebbles
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Posted 7/24/2019 8:19 AM (GMT -7)
Had to ask anyone if they've had experience with the bone growth stimulator? I do my pre op with the neurosurgeon in a few days but any heads up info would be appreciated!
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Posted 7/24/2019 9:42 AM (GMT -7)
I know Taller Now had the bone growth stimulator for her 1st surgery. I am not sure about the 2nd one. The reason she had to use hers for so long is she has osteoporosis of the c-spine. Some drs do this & some don't. Perhaps if she sees this thread she will comment.
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Posted 7/24/2019 9:45 AM (GMT -7)
thank you for the quick reply!
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bebbles
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Posted 7/24/2019 1:30 PM (GMT -7)
just curious, how many follow up visits do you have with the doctor after your surgery? guess it may vary?
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