until ur in the same position you dont appreciate what we go through with having a crohnic disease the hospital apps,the medication,and generally being ill all the time its not a life its an existence nothing more our lifes will never be the same again ever we dont have any control over this disease!from what ive read i think ur partner/husband is being really selfish sounds like he cant accept your disease he should be supporting you this makes me so angry is that not part of being in a relationship being able to communicate and support the other person when circumstances get really difficult!.
i have been with my partner 5 years in august we live 3 hrs away from each other and im always ill we almost split up because of the crohns but he had a reality check when he got back to his he realised did he really want to through 4 years away due to this disease im always ill because im on methotrexate we dont see each other for weeks sometimes months when i am healthy i travel down to his im not prepared to sit back and let this disease control my life i get depressed as much as the next person who has this disease i told him if he cant accept it then let me go!so now we just work round it and accept it!
You should offer him the same choice as i gave my partner either accept it or walk!might bring him down to reality we all have good days and bad days we dont have any control over this does he not realise that!we dont have a choice of being ill we would rather not be!
I HAVE A SAYING
"ITS THE PACK OF CARD WE WERE DEALT WITH!"
A RELATIONSHIPS NOT WORTH BREAKING UP BECAUSE YOU HAVE A DISEASE YOU LEARN TO LIVE WITH IT IF YOU CAN ACCEPT IT SO SHOULD HE!