Most of you know what i have been through recently. Sum it up 4 surgeries in 11 months each surgery had a complication and each time the CD came back within a month and I had tests prior to surgeries to rule out wherelse the CD may be hiding on me.
My husband and I have not had sex since January 2007 and we were just married Oct 1 2005. We are thinking next weekend (since he was too nervous before with the fistula on my belly, then the one before I had a drain for an abscess, ostomy bag and wound vac on my belly. I am all healed up and the last surgery was january 11.
I am pretty pain free typically in the morning so we know that would be a better time but I fear the urge of having to run to the bathroom in the middle of it or suddenly being in intense pain. We had to move in with my grandfather back in November my nana passed away and I had no income and even with my SSDI which recently got approved we couldnt afford a place of our own. In order for me to go to the loo I have 12 stairs to run down and if that 1 is occupied I have 12 more stairs to go down...all of us know how hard it is to hold D to get to the loo nevermind throwing stairs in the mix then add that you have nothing on and must get something on quick...bathrobe is white bad color I should have a brown one lol
If all goes well I hope that we get the okay from my GI to start a family sometime soon the soonest the okay would come would be mid summer. I also look like a jigsaw puzzle 4 CD surgeries, gall bladder removed the old fashioned way, and inguinal hernia operation in 87. He is sqeemish with medical stuff to begin with and even the scar since it is newish bugs him to see it.