Just now found the original post! Posted to the other work thread.
So I will make this quick, since I am duplicating here (sorry moderators!!) Friday was probably my last day at the firm. I simply had had enough when he started in on me. I fired off email response and cc'd COO - resulting in useless HR, Captain D and me in another shouting match where he denied everything - again. I then made the mistake (thought it a good idea at the time - WHAT WAS I THINKING!) of emailing the North America IT director. He had said at one time that he wished he could clone me, so I really thought he would jump in and offer assistance - nope. Just sent the email to our HR person and landed myself a pink slip. Left for the day with COO and Captain D behind closed doors but talking loud enough where I heard my name as I passed by.
Got all email correspondence printed off and copied to CD. Then asked Ms. useless HR lady to fire me after the first of July (for three years of outstanding service) to allow me one more month of benefits. I also stopped by one the partner's office that started Captain D's rage against me and let him know I would probably not be working here anymore since I stood up for him and what was best for him against my manager's orders. He said he wouldn't allow me to be fired - not going to hold my breath on that one, but it was a nice gesture.
Even if I am not fired, the damage is so irreparable that my life will be miserable times 10. Updating my resume this weekend and will start the search. Next Friday would have been my third year anniversary there and I would have received more of my 401K... plus I have a female procedure scheduled for that Friday and had already requested the 27th - July 3rd off. Had a SB CT Scan priced at $2,265 + fees for person to read (yes, I always call and ask what they charge) scheduled too. Won't be able to afford that without insurance darn the luck.
Nothing I can change now, so I am trying to just remain calm so I don't land myself at the ER with the master blaster of all flares. Just couldn't keep my big crohnie mouth shut.
Moral of the story: When you are in a great deal of pain/nausea and have a jerk for a boss, DON'T go into work that day.
Anyways - more detail in the other "wrong" thread.