My Dad still offers me things like cantaloupe that I am literally DEATHLY allergic to and have been since the early 1960's. Maybe I should take the hint?
As for the steaks? Invite some friends over for a BBQ? Offer to a neighbor who is out of work. I want to say an elderly neighbor but I wonder if they will have the teeth
Don't look the gift horse in the mouth
. Try not to hold it against your relative. YOU will be the BIGGER person if she is being malicious and if it is innocent and you take offense then you are being small and ungrateful. I get irritated with my DAD. I mean it isn't as though he just started this when he got old, he has always done this. I am not one of eight either, just two kids. I hope to someday be big enough to not be so annoyed with him.
PS. I LOVE STEAKS!!!!