I think we all sometimes have a bit of pain. Maybe try carrying some wet wipes with you so you can make sure everything is nice and clean and then use some soothing cream after each BM. There are lots of OTC creams that have some form of benzocaine or other soothing lotion. You could try some tucks wipes which have witch hazel in them, some people like those. I just get the travel packs of moist wipes from the sample section of the drug store and carry those in my purse. They are much softer than any TP in public bathrooms anyway.
If that doesn't help after a few days then you might need to call the doctor and get something a bit stronger.
And never worry about being too gross here. We've all been there, done that!
CD 20 years officially, 30 unofficially. 3 resections '93, '95 '97
Managing with strict low residue diet, keeping symptoms to a minimum. All test show small amount of ulceration, still have occasional blockages. But still have a great time with my 2 daughters and husband!
Prednisone, 6MP,Prevacid, B12 shots, Bentyl, Xifaxan.....