When I met my husband, he had (and will always have) Ankylosing Spondylitis. He was a physical wreck. His posture is terrible - can't stand up straight because of the disease. His arthritis flares constantly and he's about
due for his third hip replacement. I didn't have to think twice about
moving forward with our relationship because I loved him despite his disease. When I was diagnosed with Crohn's last year, my biggest fear was that he'd no longer be attracted to me. Turns out he still loves me despite my disease and isn't bothered by the fact that I have extremely embarrassing moments in public or that I sometimes spend entire days on the pot. We make a good pair, let me tell ya.
Like Nanners said, there will be someone out there for you. And like PV said, keep it light. I believe there are support groups that meet locally - consider going. You never know....you may meet a wonderful woman who can relate completely. You'll find the right person. I wish you luck!!