I am going for my 3rd remi infusion on March 25th so i guess were in the same boat, i just got out of the hospital last week after another week in there for another flare so i am on a tapering dose of pred again. I was told by my GI that it could take up to 6 months before you will know if the remicade is making a difference or not. Everyone is different some feel better quickly and some take longer. he told me for crohn's it is usually longer. (apparently rhuemetoid pts are the quickest to see reactions). I am at the end of my road too we have tried numerous diff things so i am dying for this to work as i am sure you are too. So stay postive (cause worrying isn't good for you lol) and hopefully it works for you. Im due to see the surgeon the end of april im hoping to avoid all surgeries too.
Wishing you luck
Offically diagnosed with Crohn's Oct 2009, been living with bowel problems since 1990
Current meds: Remicade Feb 2010, Immuran, rel-pax, Topomax, Corticosteriod Suppositories, lantus, humalog, 2000u vit d, calcium, multivit, omega 3, Vit B