I think a lot of people are on the fence about this, and that's why there is not many responses. Is it ok for someone to suggest person with Crohns should take a job scrubbing toilets to "accommodate" their needs? Me personally, I'd be offended...not because I'm above scrubbing a toilet but because someone thinks the only job I'm able to do is something like that. Other people look at it as a job is a job. Could she have been more tactful? Yes. How about telling him what jobs are avalible and seeing if he was interested in any of them.
Dianogsed with Crohns: At 16 years old. 23 years old now.
Surgeries:3 Bowel Resections, Gallbladder Removed, 3 Abscess Cleanings, Fistula Repair
Current Meds: Methorexate, Vitamin B12 (injections), Nexium.
Next Surgery: None.