Hi CheerDad, sorry you have so much on your plate. I cant help you with most of what you have to deal with but I can say a few words about
your law suit. I too was forced into a medical retirement. I can tell you it ate me up inside for years . Later I got a grip on just what I was doing to myself. Hey, I sure wasn't hurting them, just me. I started looking at the good side of being retired. No money , oh well, but no stinking A hole boss either. I found a little part time work to make a few bucks, I rest when I can , fish when I can, and I let go of the anger that was killing me. Let your lawyers do what they do and try to enjoy the freedom of not working for a bunch of non careing Butt holes. Dont let them into your life anymore. They are not worth it. Hope all gets better for you soon and know we are here ffor you even if its just to listen.
If we would read the secret history of our enemies,we would find in each mans life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.