So my 14 year marriage is over. I found out last night that he's been having an emotional affair. We had been having some problems the last month or so. I had been trying so hard to work on things, but wasn't getting anywhere. Now I see why. I'm completely devastated. I loved him my whole adult life, and he had been with me through all my illness. He won't tell me about this person he's having the emotional affair with. I'm guessing she's nice and healthy, full of engery, and probably skinny. But regardless, he says he doesn't love me enough to stay married, and wants a divorce. He's just being so cold, no emotion.
I'm not sure how I'm going to get through this, especially with my Crohn's. I can see a huge flare coming on any time now. I can't work with this DD. He was my only insurance coverage. How am I going to afford my medications? I just don't know what to do. I do have my Mom thankfully, and will be moving in with her I guess (with my son, which is also devastated, and it's so hard to keep it together for him). Any advice? Or maybe just a shoulder to cry on?
Diagnosed with Crohn's Disease 2/06, and Health Anxiety/OCD 12/08 Taking Asacol, Questran, Toprol XL, and Celexa.