my sister tells me that my chorns if i took care of myself better like quit smoking and eat better for me foods stuff like that.she saysi wouldnt be in any pain and that itstotally my fault for being in pain and having 10-20+ BMs a day its my fault that sumtimes after a big one that im tired and feelwarn out, and its also my fault that i got chorns. ofcourse i try to ingore her but whenyou hear non stop its kinda hard to. i have tried being nice to her and explaining in a calm way about
things, iv tried being rude and telling go to hell that she doesnt know what she is talking about
. but shewont shut about
it. any ideas how to get her to understand?
Sorry 2 hear that your sister is giving u bull when she should b supporting u does she know that there is no cure or cause 4 this disease sounds like she needs a lesson not only on info about
Crohns but as being a good sister and helping u not stressing u out...I have a family member like that as well they think there the doctor and know what is best 4 me and tells me what 2 do all the time even when I'm in hospital which I just got out a month ago I had a triple hernia repair and a double bowel resection due 2 repeated bowel obstructions which I ended up in ICU 4 7 long weeks in the end she was telling the doc's how 2 do there job that didn't last mind u they know what she is like and put her in her place and advised her 2 stop cause she was a big contributing factor 2 my recovery,so now I'm happy 2 say she is no longer welcome in my home unless she can keep her mouth shut and things have changed there somewhat,but she still feels the need 2 tell everyone who will listen 2 her that I brought this on myself and the food I eat is all wrong I wouldn't wish this disease on my worst enemy but if god could arrange 4 her 2 go through what I go through in just one day let her walk a mile in my shoes and c where she stands than I bet the tables would b turned than right,,, I hope and pray that u 2 can resolve your issues trust me when I say I know what your going through try taking her along with u 2 your next doctors app and before hand call your doc explain the issues your having with her maybe he can shed some light on it 4 her good luck 2 u I wish u all the best sorry 4 the long quote and post but when I read this it made my blood boil....Take Care Of Yourself And Let Your Sister Take Care Of Her Own Life And 2 But Out Of Yours....
Had Crohns 17 years had numerous bowel resections,fistulas,fissures,hemmies,kidney problems,fibro,arthritis,dignosed at 13 had GI feeding tube,nasal feeding tube,cental lines,ports,4 ruptured bowel emergency surgeries,TMJ,depression,current meds are Hydromorphone,30 ,Hydromophome,8 ,Ketoprofen,100 ,Trazadone,50 ,Lorazepam,10 ,Zopliclone,5 ,atriplyine,75 ,Losac,50 Tylenol Athritis ,B-12 injections ,Iron injections ,Gravol,75 Predisone,5mg ,Humira,40mg once a week.Still looking for the doctor with all the answers if you find him forward him to me please.P.S my bathroom is the nicest room in my house cause i spend so much time there,i am thinking about installing the computer and maybe a hot-dog stand.