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Mazelle343
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Posted 10/21/2010 10:37 AM (GMT -8)
I'm not a mother, but I hope to be one soon although I am terrified to pass this disease to my children.

I've read that there is a 9% chance of passing it if one parent has an IBD and it's much higher if both parents haven an IBD.  Does anyone have adult 20 or 30 something year old children that don't have it?   I've also read that a woman in remission during pregnancy is less likely to pass the disease but will likely have a flare after delivery?   Can anyone confirm any of this?

Any stories, or personal experiences you guys can tell me would be great... or if you have any links to research.. those would be nice too.

Thanks :-)

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rlsnights
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Posted 10/21/2010 10:43 AM (GMT -8)
Don't have time to look specific references up for you. But I can tell you that there is a small chance of passing on IBD (either CD or UC) to your child. But estimating the risk of that is tricky. Certainly a family history of IBD and both parents having IBD is likely to increase the risk.

I can also tell you that most people who have children with IBD did not themselves have IBD and had no family history of the disease.

I would suggest you discuss your concerns with your OB/GYN and ask for genetic counseling. Talking this over with a highly trained specialist in this field may give you a more realistic idea of your individual risk of having a child with IBD much better than looking at population based study results.

Good luck.
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enixie
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Posted 10/21/2010 10:44 AM (GMT -8)
I do not know the statistics but I have friends.

 

One friend has a mom who has Crohn's but she does not.  She is 30.  Her brother who is slightly older also does not have it.

 

Another friend has Crohn's and she flared right after giving birth, though I don't know how long after.  Maybe a month?  I can get in touch with her if you want and find out what her pregnancies with Crohn's were like.  She has 4 kids.

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kazbern
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Posted 10/21/2010 11:05 AM (GMT -8)
I felt fine during pregnancy and flared afterwards both times. That's the thing with autoimmune diseases - you'll hear OBs talk about the "rule of thirds: one third will get better, one third will get worse and one third will have no change during pregnancy." This is true for asthma, IBD....probably all of the autoimmune illnesses.

My family history is kind of tricky - my dad has had bowel issues but no diagnosis. His mom had bowel issues but never went to the dr. Neither one was so ill that they lost tons of weight or anything. My illness is probably worse than theirs and I'm not that sick.  Edited to add that I have a 2nd cousin from this same grandmother who has quite severe Crohn's.

I have a friend who didn't discover her own IBD until she had her first screening colonoscopy at age 50. Up until then she thought she had arthritis. She has two sons with CD. One had a bowel resection at age 16, the other is maintained fine on Pentasa (he's 20). Her daughter has no issues; her husband has psoriasis which might correlate with IBD.
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conker21
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Posted 10/21/2010 11:48 AM (GMT -8)
Hello
My dad has crohns has got 3 children and 2 of them Inc me unfortunately now has crohns and our mother has no history of ibs or crohns.

Im also tryin for a baby so prayin to god I don't pass this on. X
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Nanners
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Posted 10/21/2010 11:56 AM (GMT -8)
I have 3 grown daughters (28, 31, 32) and 6 grandbabies. And I am thanking God that none of them developed Crohns. I am also the only one of 5 kids who got it. No one that we know in my family either side has it either. So I guess I was the lucky one:)

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crohnielass
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Posted 10/21/2010 12:29 PM (GMT -8)
I have two grown up sons 20 & 21 and also very thankful that neither of them developed this disease. Before I falling pregnant with my 1st son I was in the middle of a  flare but, as soon as i fell pregnant  with him those 9 months were the best ever as I had no real symptoms and was so well for the whole pregnancy but, a few days after the birth all symptoms came back and there i was back in a flare. Bev x

 

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HJones
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Posted 10/21/2010 12:49 PM (GMT -8)
I have crohn's, and my dad has crohn's. I also know a lady who has crohn's, and her son has it too. I'm surprised about that 9% figure, because everyone I know who has gut problems have a family history of it.
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NiceCupOfTea
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Posted 10/21/2010 1:14 PM (GMT -8)
The chances of 'passing' Crohn's on are quite unlikely, tbh. I wouldn't even consider not having children for that reason. Most people with Crohn's don't have a first-degree relative with the condition.

In my case I do. A brother and a cousin, if you're interested. My mum doesn't have Crohn's, nor does my cousin's mother. My brother's and cousin's children do not have Crohn's, but they are still children and not adults.
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Ides
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Posted 10/21/2010 1:42 PM (GMT -8)
I have two adult daughters. Neither has been diagnosed with CD. However, I suspect that one may have it.

My grandmother had a bowel resection for a "bowel problem." In those days, noone spoke about their bowel habits or problems. But my grandmother always had diarrhea.

My mother and her brother both have ulcerative colitis.

Then there is me with CD. I have one first cousin who likely has IBD but refuses to seek treatment. I told his wife recently that I hope he seeks help before he winds up in emergency surgery.
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flowery
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Posted 10/21/2010 2:50 PM (GMT -8)
I have two adult daughter and neither of them... have Crohns. I watch them like a hawk too!

Looking back at raising them there were many times I was in a flare. Didn't get dx until I was 36.  I would get very fatigued and didn't really get alot of help in raising them during those years because my husband and I both worked with not alot of family support.

I suggest absolutley having children. But, know that you'll need help now and then. If your family is supportive and willing to help out children are the best thing about a family. Worrying about passing something down is the risk you take for the Love of all time. Even if a Dr. said your chances are 0% ...a baby could be born with a heart deffect and you'd Love it all the same.

I have Crohns and my Brother has MS (Mulitple Sclerosis) both auto-immune. When asking my Dr. about the chances of me passing it down to my daughters he said 5%.

But, I do believe that getting an auto-immune is somewhat of a "melting pot" I believe it is situational, viruses, stress, yada yada mixed with the genes passed down.... Putting a real finger on WHY we get it actually hasn't been discovered yet. If it was we'd be cured!

I do know this about auto-immune. USually, usually getting pregnant a person goes into remission. not always but usually. Your body is going to do everything in its power to create a healthy baby. Now, afterwards....if your run down or have had to have a C-section...you could flare. Surgery can also cause a flare with auto-immune. This is why many Dr.'s just run antibiodicts after surgery with a dose of pred. 

 

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Bane
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Posted 10/21/2010 2:56 PM (GMT -8)
I pretty much never stood a chance. my dad has rheumatoid arthritis and irritable bowels, and my mom has fibromayalgia and irritable bowels. Both of those are autoimmune diseases, just like Crohn's.

Still, I'd rather be alive with Crohn's than not alive without it.
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nitat
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Posted 10/21/2010 3:18 PM (GMT -8)
I am one of 5 children. Neither one of my parents have it. I also have 3 children, 35, 30 and 27. None of them have it. Seems like I'm one of 3 cousins that have it.
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dms40
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Posted 10/21/2010 3:26 PM (GMT -8)
I have a son with Crohn's, no one in my or my husband's family has any sort of IBD.  I have 2 other sons (younger) that I watch very closely  - supplement their diets with Vit D and probiotics and Omega 3, I would never have not had my kids had I known the chances of any of them developing CD. 

One interesting thing is I was born with a very low immune system and was supplemented once a week with gammuglobulin shots until I was 2, have no idea if this has any relation to my sons condition.

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Zanne
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Posted 10/21/2010 3:43 PM (GMT -8)
This is one of my hot buttons. There are so many diseases that can be passed down and have genetic links and have much worse complications. Diabetes, heart disease, high blood pressure, some cancers, to name a few.

My mom had CD but was not diagnosed until I was 1. I have CD but was not diagnosed until my older daughter was 1. I suspect that my younger daughter, who will be 20 next week, may have CD or be well on her way. She will be seeing my GI on Monday. Both my kids have always had tummy issues. HOWEVER, I would never have wanted my mother to not have had me, and I'm sure my kids would not have wanted me to not have had them. My mom set a good example for me, by finding a way to do most of the things she wanted to do without letting Crohn's get in her way. I have done the same. If my daughter's ever get the unfortunate diagnosis, I hope they will handle it the way they were shown by their grandmother and me. It is a rough bump in the road, but only a bump.

Part of parenting is showing our children how to deal with tough situations, how we are human. My having Crohn's has taught my daughters compassion, strength, faith, and many more things that will get them through their darkest days in life, with or without a chronic illness to fight.

Crohn's is not a death sentence.

It is a life long manageable disease with periods of activity and periods of remission. I have had a wonderful life and so did my mother. Many diseases that have genetic components have death, paralysis, blindness, amputation as a possibilities. Crohn's is not one of them.
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HJones
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Posted 10/21/2010 3:50 PM (GMT -8)

Ides said...
I have two adult daughters. Neither has been diagnosed with CD. However, I suspect that one may have it.

My grandmother had a bowel resection for a "bowel problem." In those days, noone spoke about their bowel habits or problems. But my grandmother always had diarrhea.

My mother and her brother both have ulcerative colitis.

Then there is me with CD. I have one first cousin who likely has IBD but refuses to seek treatment. I told his wife recently that I hope he seeks help before he winds up in emergency surgery.

That's interesting, my great grandmother had a bowel resection, but no one seems to know what for. Most of my family's bowel problems run on that side of the family.
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Jen77
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Posted 10/21/2010 7:40 PM (GMT -8)
My son is 12, and thankfully no signs yet. It does worry me, but there is so much "fun" stuff in every family, so I wouldn't think twice about having kids just because I had Crohn's. Luckily I had him before my Crohn's started. After we had him my health went downhill (I had him at age 20). I've got so many things going on all my doctors say I shouldn't have anymore. So he's my miracle baby. :)

I do think it runs in families though. My Aunt I believe for sure has it. My great-grandpa used to talk about stomach issues all the time. He called it a "kink" in his intestines. He'd get pain and diarrhea frequently. So at least for my family it doesn't seem to always come down from parent to child, just kinda skips around.
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Becktoria
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Posted 10/21/2010 8:17 PM (GMT -8)
In my family there are four children (me and 3 sibs). I have CD and my brother has UC. No one else in my family over the past 2 generations has any IBD. None of the nine biological grandchildren children have IBD. However, me and two friends the same age, growing up in the same small town were all diagnosed with CD within 5 years of each other. Interesting. I do not think the genetic link is strong enough to stop you from having children (even if CD were something that would stop u, which is a personal choice)... I thought that if u have a sibling with IBD then your chances are 10-15% higher of getting it- but the link with parents is not really established. Environment seems to be very much a part of the cause of this disease, although genetics is likely a part in it as well... interesting topic I have thought a lot about over the years. I have a child who is 6 and she has had some digestive issues like C etc and takes a med each day to help her out. She is adopted, not my bio-child, so I didn't pass it on through genetics. My hubbie and I didn't want to risk my health through pregnancy and haven't tried the old-fashioned way... although we are still contemplating it. I guess if your own health and/or your concerns about passing on IBD is high, adoption can also be an option for you. It is well worth it- having children, whether bio or adopted, and like posters stated above, knowing you may need extra help along the way due to living with CD is just a part of it and truely that can happen to anyone at anytime whether or not they have chronic illness...


Best of luck,


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Spirited
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Posted 10/22/2010 4:41 AM (GMT -8)
I am 41.  I was diagnosed in 2000 with Chron's disease.  I have three children.  My grandfather had UC and I have an aunt with Celiac, a 2nd cousin with celiac and a 2nd cousin with Chron's.  My son is 12 and he has juvenile rhuematoid arthritis.  This is another autoimune disease and my understand from the many doctors we have been to is that children of parents with an autoimune disease are at a higher risk of developing an autoimune disease.  Not necesarily the same one.
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Lori M
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Posted 10/22/2010 6:01 AM (GMT -8)
My mom had CREST, the jackpot of autoimmune disorders.  My dad has IBS and diverticulitis.  My older sister and I both have Crohn's and our younger sister has IBS.  Our brother has gut issues but is too stubborn to have it checked out. 

After all that it's amazing that my two adult kids don't show any signs of having any autoimmune problems!  Praying that they never do!

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pb4
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Posted 10/22/2010 7:33 AM (GMT -8)
IBD (CD, UC) can most definitely be inherited, doesn't mean it always will be and there's no way to determine if you will pass it on or have it passed on to you from you parent(s)/family members...There is actualy a -10 to 15% increased risk of developing IBD if one parent has an IBD and the % goes higher if both your parents have IBD.

There are some cases in which almost all family members have IBD, there seems to be a gentic factor for many IBDers but not necessarily all (according to science) but since how it can be passed is still unknown, that's not to say that any blood relative that has an IBD could be enough of a link for it to be passed (not just if the/a parent(s) have it).

My mom had UC and I have CD, she got sick with her UC AFTER I got sick with my CD (so I had it first before she did since I got sick in my early 20's and she didn't get it until her late 60's) so as you see, nothing is written in stone..my kids are not safe because of the obvious fact that it does run in my family....however I didn't know this before I had kids cuz neither myself or my mom had it yet.

Don't forget, one can only get sick with IBD if it's been triggered, most people don't stop to think they have family members around them that are very likely to be susceptible to getting an IBD but it does have to be triggered first in order to be "sick" with it. I'm the youngest in my family and I developed it young, all my older siblings are not out of the woods just because they haven't got sick yet doesn't mean they won't, afterall my mom was in her mid 60's when she got sick with it. Besdies which, IBD has ben around for ages, I highly doubt anyone of us knows our entire family's health history since that would likely be impossible to know, also consider the fact that the pooh subject has always been taboo and many yrs ago when ppl did complain to their docs about their guts, their docs would tell them that it was all in their heads..science has come a long way, but still has much further to go when it comes to IBD (let alone other illnesses).

Ever wonder how many past relatives you've had they could very well have ended up with an IBD had it been triggered before they passed away? I'm sure it happens.

One last thing, for crohn's there is a gene located on chromosome 6 that is "scratched" which causes it to malfunction allowing toxins in rather than keeping them out and it is linked specifically to crohn's (refer to Dr. Kathy Siminovitch).
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MishBall2
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Posted 10/22/2010 12:07 PM (GMT -8)
neither of my parents or grand parents had it. My great aunt has it and my little cousin has it. From what i understand it is generally familial (within the extended family) but not hereditary.
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pb4
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Posted 10/22/2010 4:03 PM (GMT -8)
There are many cases of IBD that are confirmed being hereditary...here's a good link...

http://www.healthtree.com/articles/crohns-disease/genetics/

I think this is why researchers may be struggling so much with the whole IBD puzzle, since it seems they can determine that a % of cases are infact hereditary but for some reason not all cases...much needs to be learned...I hope they find the cause so they can find the cure.

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Lady G
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Posted 10/22/2010 6:23 PM (GMT -8)
My dad has Crohns and I got it.....Even though I got it and yeah, it's not always fun, I have never blamed him or had anything against them for getting the disease.  It was just what fate wanted and I don't play blame games with it.

Though with my son, who is 19 months, of course I fear everyday he will get it...and I pray he doesn't....but if he does me and my dad will be there to help him through it.  So far he's healthy as a horse -knock on wood-.

I was in remission when I had him, all through the pregnancy, and while I can't say it's true or not that you will flare after--I'd say it's fully different for every case of course--I did have a flare..but then again I had an obstruction..so that was the issue really.

 

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cindywchrones
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Posted 10/22/2010 6:37 PM (GMT -8)
My father was UC..I have passed it on to one of my four children so far. This son also ended up with his bowels backward in his body. I was told you may not pass on CD, but your children have a higher chance of developing some kind of auto immune disease.
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