I'm so sorry your feeling like this especially about
your second surgery.
I haven't gone through any surgary so I can not comment on that. But I have done remicade and azathiorprine (I guess your in Canada?!) I didn't get sick at all. Actually being on remicade and or humira I never ever get sick!!! It's soooo odd I know and everyone reacts differently but for some reason the combo made me feel better so up my imune system.
I didn't have any horrible side effects with the combo besides sometimes dizzyness so I'd take it at night right before bed time to sleep most of the side effects off. Always works!
But it all stop working for me in the end and had to turn to methotrexate. I really hope the combo works for you for as long as possible. Good luck, feel better and try to keep us posted!!!
CD for 8 years. Been on Remi, humira,prednisone (8X)provaced,pantolic, imuran. Currently on MTX for arthritis and CD and on BCP for the endometriosis. Hoping for remission of all 3 disease in the next year.