Crohn,s

I have been not feeling well for about 4 years or so i had a Hysterectomy 2003 and have been unwell since then had diaroah constant stomach pain bloating nausea wind pain and loss of weight and appetite hot and cold flushes joint pain so tried wheat free diet which i am still on can not eat any red meat or most foods with out pain or diaroah had a scan which showed thickening of the bowel and small bowel enemma showed no blockage had a colonoscopy all good in there in the last 3 weeks constent bloating and cronic stomach pain have had 3 stays in Hospital because of pain not sure what to think Surgen says proably Chrons but had no finall word as yet it has been some time .
I drink tea with a little light milk no coffee at all been advised to eat 6 small meals a day soft foods only lots of Fluids i do not drink beer or wine or soft drinks and none of these things help me at all i am not on any Meds Except Nicotic Acid for Colestrol and Cartia for blood thinners Age 50 would appreciate any feed back i am pleased that i have found some where that people have same problems .
Rgards Anne