I feel guilty because I don't usually go to gatherings, especially after work. Getting through the day is just all I can do, in addition to squeezing in shopping errands.
Then, I always have monday off and I have spent most of them lately in the doctor's office. So, if I have free time, I want to be free and at home where there is no worry about a bathroom.
But, I know they think I blow everything off, but for them it's a couple hours out. For me, its a morning in the bathroom just to attend this "small event".
I can usually get to work okay, but a trip, an event, an appointment, here comes the trots and it's all I can do to get out the door in time, then suffer with "urge" while I'm out.