I agree with Ides. I would also consider maybe a uriologist. When my CD/inflamation flares I have urinary problems to boot. No bladder cysts, infection or stones. The pain you describe is what I lived with 5 years prior to my CD diagnosis. It REALLY hurts. Also, my bladder would not empty completely each time I went to the bathroom until I shifted to one side on the toilet. (?)
It is VERY important that your bladder empties properly each time you urinate! Sometimes mine would wait until I wiped and I'd pee on my hand such as you describe. I also had a CD cyst attached to my ovary which blocked my ureter (spelling?)...the tube from the kidney to the bladder. Just thought I'd throw in my two cents worth....hope you see someone and are feeling better soon!
Dx'd Jan'06, 1st Resection 7/06, Predinsone, Humira, Imuran, B12 injections, Nexium. Secondary conditions: Psorasis, Acne, Fatigue, Joint Pain, Lactose Intolerant, gallstones, fibroid cysts, peri-menopausal.