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Robert B
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   Posted 12/24/2007 4:07 PM (GMT -6)   
I dont know what to do...i fell utterly hopless and depressed...
My parents have disowned me, ive just failed the majority of my classes, my girlfriend Amelia recently died in a car accident, and not too shortly after I was fired from my job for leaving the store to go to the accident site...i feel...worthless...

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   Posted 12/24/2007 6:19 PM (GMT -6)   
You are carrying a very heavy load on this Christmas eve. Do you have any friends or family that you could talk to tonight? I think you need support right now. Are you going to counseling of any sort? Are you on any medication for depression? We are here for you so keep writing. We will help you in any way that we possibly can.


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   Posted 12/24/2007 6:41 PM (GMT -6)   

Hello and I am sorry for your loss.  I agree you need to get together with others during the Holiday.  People that are safe for you and will be able to help you through your rough time.

If you need medical help please go to the nearest ER and someone there will help you.

Is there any chance you can make up with your family?  I do not know the details but just thought I would ask?

Gentle Hugs to you and please keep posting.  We are here, even on Christmas Eve. :)


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   Posted 12/25/2007 8:07 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Robert
Welcome to the forum,I am sure you will find the support that you are looking for.

I am so sorry for your loss. I agree with Kitt that you might want to think about going to the ER if you need emergency help.

We will be here for you when you need us.

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   Posted 12/25/2007 11:45 AM (GMT -6)   


I agree with the others; I hope you can surround yourself with people who care about you.  I am so sorry for all that has happened.  HealingWell is such a great support system.  Keep writing...You are not worthless (hugs)

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   Posted 12/25/2007 3:06 PM (GMT -6)   
I am so sorry for your loss
I know the pain you feel I honestly do .as do many others on this forum

Please stay with us get to know the folks on here and get the help and support you need now and in future.............

Everyone here is like family my friend ...........

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   Posted 12/25/2007 7:39 PM (GMT -6)   
Welcome to HealingWell.  I am also sorry for your loss.  I agree this is not the time of the year for you to be alone, you should try to be with friends.  I bet your parents would be willing to reconcile.  It does sound like seeing a therapist might not be a bad idea for you.
Please know we are here for you and we care about you.
Take care!

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