Do you only see them when your emotions are out of synch, like when you are sad, hopeless, emotional, etc.? Or do you see them at other times? I only ask because you said the spirit was sad when you were, so I thought maybe it is your way of projecting and dealing with emotions, like a poltergeist (sp?), if you will. Don't shoot me, I'm just throwing an idea out there.
Even with it being a new job, they do not know WHO uses the employee assistance, they only how many people have used it per year. And, they never know WHY you go, could be marriage counseling. So you could still be under the radar.
We can offer insight and support, but the therapists can help you sort through everything so much better (although many of us have been going to a therapist so long we think we could do their job!!!! (just kidding, of course, even when I think I know the answer to my problem the therapist will offer another that I never would have thought of... and it's usually right (darn it)).
cervical fusion 2006, with great result
L4-5 surgery with cages, plates, and screws in 2005, I have continued pain
MEDS: Fentanyl patch, Norco, Celexa, trazodone, and Parafon Forte
Im going to smile like nothing is wrong, act like everything is perfect, and pretend its not hurting me.