Posted 2/18/2008 1:31 AM (GMT -6)
That is some pretty good advice, think of the things she did that hurt or angered you...... AND, think about this, if she wanted you to take her back, would you? Scotty, she ripped your heart out and wanted out to be with another guy....you can't have someone who will treat you like that in your life. From what I can tell, you are an amazingly strong and funny guy....the right person will find you, just stop looking so hard. She could be a woman who has been your neighbor all these years and you didn't give her the time of day. She could now be the woman who, as a younger girl, really grossed you out or you didn't like because she is your friend's sister.....she is there, right under your nose but you just haven't found one another yet.
If you will remember, my son is going through the same thing at the same time you were/are.....he is still single, too. He finally told the ex to stop contacting him and that is when he made more progress in moving on. He has talked to several girls, but right now he's happy working on his car, hanging out with friends, and working. Now he has female friends of other friends saying they want to meet him because they have heard about him or seen him around. (He has always been VERY generous with his girlfriends, buying them diamond necklaces for birthdays, or flowers just because).....so now I guess other girls want diamonds!!!