I agree with everything having been said. They should try to seek counseling if they both want to make it work out, which I know it will! Something likes this take times and it is hard, but getting through it together will make both of you stronger.
The only thing I have to disagree with is that having both of them on the site, its hinting toward having both here and having them reading each others post will hurt one of them. Personally, I think we should all be honest. If we are being honest I dont think it should matter who reads it. If I were in there situation I would want everyone to treat us the same. I would want to here everyones opinions and hear the truth. Someone always gets hurt, but being honest is always the best way to go!
I do agree that it could be hard having them both here, but they deserve it as much as the next person! I love Baby being on here and I would never want her to leave! I think if they both choose to stay we shall treats them as individuals and stop thinking of them as a "them". Bias is going happen, but I think we should be
everything and just be honest!
I am glad to have them both on here. They came here for our support and I intend on giving them both that! Also, Baby T is taking a break from here... I think that is great and I respect her decision. I think she needs space and it will be good. Hopefully she will start feeling better again soon!
(((BIG HUGS TO BABY!))))
"Healing is an energy phenomenon. Hope is another
word for Healing.
"Cracks in the concrete are just reminders that you fall apart
no matter how strong you are"
"Sometimes it is best to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve"
"Im going to
smile like nothing is wrong, talk like everything is perfect, act like its all a dream, and pretend its not hurting me."