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Date Joined Mar 2008
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   Posted 3/11/2008 12:56 PM (GMT -6)   
i dont know who i am anymore i was so loud and fun and now...... well what can i say i have no life , no strength and no happiness ! ive lost my friends because i cant go out my my house , ive recently moved in with my boyfriend because things at home was really bad. my med isnt helping ive got to the point where i cant harly eat and cant sleep at night please someone help me i need to know why i feel like this and how i can change my life , i cant keep fighting anymore. 

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   Posted 3/11/2008 1:11 PM (GMT -6)   

First of all, we all go through the stage of wondering who we are and why are we here, that comes with time as you get to know yourself. That can't be rushed, but rest assured, you aren't the only one with these questions. So please be patient with yourself.

You might need to talk to your doctor about the way the meds are affecting you. Maybe you need a different medication.

Your life will change as you grow. Are you happy living with your bf? It sounds like you were under a lot of stress at home. Just give youself a chance to addapt to the change. This all takes time, so dont' beat yourself up over it. There is nothing wrong with the way you feel. This is normal. Just keep trying and I am sure that you will feel better soon. Do you go to counseling? That could be an option in the process of finding yourself. Believe me when I say I have been there. I wondered for years who I really was. Sometimes it takes a while to figure that out.

In the meantime, Keep posting and let us know how you are doing. Also I am sure that others will post here, and probably have better answers than that of mine.

Good luck
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Date Joined Jan 2006
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   Posted 3/11/2008 4:23 PM (GMT -6)   

Hi there

I agree with what Karen has said. If you have recently moved in with your b/f, then it is likely that your life will continue to change and evolve as you settle down into your new life with him. I too would ask if you are happy living with him? Your doctor will be the best person to advise you regarding your meds... it sounds like you need a review of your meds to wither change the dosage or the med. Perhaps starting some kind of therapy would be a good idea as well.


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