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   Posted 4/13/2008 2:25 AM (GMT -6)   
i cant stop dreaming of my x they range from us getting back toghter us just hooking up or her telling me that she is prego by the guy she left me for. i havent heard from her in a few weeks.i cant stop thinkking about her ,this week was the 6 month anni of when she ripped my heart out i was taking the day pretty good this a jerk at work was digging into deeper and deeper. i was able tocontrol my self.  at time i still close my eyes and see her. granted i cant belive looking back on it now how fast six minths have gone by.i know that i shouldnt need someone in my life to make me feel good about my self but i want someone that i can talk to lay down with and hang out with. i just feel alone sad . i havent been able to hang out with my best friend lately. he visits his gf on the weekends so hanging out on the weekends is out. i got switched to nights on my day job so i cant see him during the week because he works during the day. im just so sad i feel like im on a roller coaster.

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   Posted 4/13/2008 6:09 AM (GMT -6)   

Hi Scotty,

I can understand how you feel when you say you feel alone. I dont have, nor ever had, a g/f but it is something that I long for desperately because I want a companion who is always there. Unfortunately there is little we can do to control our dreams. If it is a recurring dream then maybe it is trying to tell you something and it thinks you are not listening? I suppose it depends what you feel and believe about dreaming in general.


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   Posted 4/13/2008 7:27 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Scotty

I am so sorry that you are feeling down. I was hoping that you were on the road to recovery..

Have you thought about seeking out other single people? Here they have single gatherings all of the time.
Or taking up some type of hobby,maybe like bike riding or something.
Anything to get your mind off of her.

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   Posted 4/13/2008 9:39 AM (GMT -6)   
Dreams can often be a fear or a desire. So think about that. Maybe then they will stop.

I wish you luck with this. You have been doing so good, dont let it get you down.

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   Posted 4/13/2008 9:19 PM (GMT -6)   
hey scotty,

get some fresh air... do things that might distract you from your x. Maybe try dating again if you're up to it. Was she really that good?, i mean for you to keep obsessing over her? No offense, i'm a girl and even i'm saying, no girl is that good. I know it's hard not to think about certain things... and i know that it's easy for me to say drop it, and really hard for you to do that. Girls can be very fickle and mean, but try not to let it dwell on you too much.. like i said, get some fresh air, since you have a night job, that shouldn't be too hard. Best of luck... not quite sure i helped very much but oh well. :)

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   Posted 4/14/2008 7:05 AM (GMT -6)   

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