Whatever you do, it is not your fault,always remember that.
Sometimes people seem to get into a mode, and they can't get out of it. Who knows what happened,was the ex's contacting him first and he just didn't know how to say no?
My b/f have had to deal with his crazy x just showing up at 2am,or sending stupid emails. Luckily for me,my b/f has basically put her on ignore,and so far so good.
I am wondering if they are using the "poor me" to him,and he feels guilty?
I understand that you are upset,as I would be too.But, you have to ask yourself if you love him,and are better off with or without him?
Then, how would he feel if you send the X's an email,and just told them that you are sorry,but by them contacting him,it is causing to many problems,and to please stop.
If he is willing to let you do that,then I think he just doesn't know how to say no. If he isn't willing,well, then that would be the end of things to me.....
Chronic Depression, Panic Attacks,Anxiety Attacks,Anorexia
Please remember,I am not a professional..I am just a person who is also fighting depression.