Well, wow, that is a lot...What is up with this? I see a strong woman, who has taken over and picked up the pieces that her husband strew all over the place. Tied up the lose ends and is taking care of herself and her daughter sucessfully. I know it isn't easy, but you have come a long way and achieved a lot. You should be proud of yourself.
You can't let what you think somebody is thinking about
you stand in your way. Hold your head up, you do your job and obviously do it well. Please be proud of who you are.
It sounds like your daughter needs to take responsibility for her school work. Sure she is angry, but that is no excuse at her age to blow off school. Maybe you should have a talk with her and explain that she will be 18, if she doesn't finish school, she will not get a good job. Which are hard to come by these days. I know that she has been through a lot, but sarcasm, no, not in this house....You need to try to get her to understand your situation.
How can you blame yourself for your husband's selfish actions anyway? That is silly. He committed adultry twice, then blew a ton of money. That was your money too. You are his wife. He is the one neglecting the family right now. Not you.
I hope that this helped some, my opinion is all. I hope that you can realize what a wonderful person that you are and that you should be proud of yourself.
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