I went through a jealousy thing when I was young because my bf at that time was jealous of me. It started out as a 'see how it feels' type thing and then turned into real jealousy. That was our main problem. Finally I couldn't take it anymore and decided that if he was mine, he was mine. If he wasn't then it would be up to me on how I much I wanted the relationship. Eventually I wasn't jealous anymore. So I always gave him that benefit of a doubt. After that it wasn't even an issue anymore.
But I did find out that the reason he was jealous of me was because he was doing things himself. So my instincts were right, but I was suffering with the jealous feelings. I dealt with the feelings and the rest worked it's way out.
I hope that this helps some
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