Can anyone give me any advice about jealousy!! I can at times be really jealous and possessive and it really tires me out and makes me really emotional, not to mention the effect it has on the people around me!
I obsess about the past, my bf was with this girl for 6 years, but they split up about 3 years ago and haven't spoken in maybe the last 2 years, and yet I obsess over her, I feel that she's had more experiences with him and that they must have done loads of different things and that she knows him better than i do and that he knows her better than he knows me. I go on about it and we have bad arguements!!
I get possessive when my bf wants to go out with his friends (i don't actually tell him) and then when he's out I obsess over it and am on edge all night! I get upset if he doesn't text me and call me loads (probably more than is reasonable) and I really know that I am being ridiculous, but it really upsets me!
I hate that I feel like this!
"The Optimist sees the rose and not its thorns; the pessimist stares at the thorns, oblivious of the rose."