Aurora, any chance you might still run into the 89 year old man? I am kidding.
But then again he might have a son who's available. Kidding again-- I'm really with you. I'm older than you are and I wouldn't do it either. I'm at the age where a man my age is no longer appealing. (Except for one who left me brokenhearted)
about volunteering. I volunteer two different places. It helps during the week, but it doesn't help for the weekend. My friends are all married and no one is ever available on the weekend.
I've been trying to find a solution for about 7 years. Am deciding there is none but to get through the day minute by minute.
I'm ready to become a nun! A nun in a monastery might be more fun!